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गणतन्त्रको लागी गरिएको आन्दोलन को बेलामा लेखिएको गजल


गास वास कपास सवै लुटिएको कहानी यो
एक्लैलाई सवै मिलि कुटिएको कहानी यो

सहनै नसकेर अत्याचरि कुशासकलाई
सखापै पार्न जन्ता जुटिएको कहानी यो

हुकुमीले चलिराको देशको शासणलाई
एकतामा एक भईं चुटिएको कहानी यो

सत्ता दिदाँ उन्कै पछि पछि लागनेहरु
संग पनि　नाता फुटिएको कहानी यो

गणतन्त्रले आज यो सिंगो मुलुक हाँक्दा
बिचारा  एकमात्र छुटिएको कहानी यो

यो एउटा भावना मात्र हो !

SAN FRANCISCO, California (AFP) – Google on Friday released Web traffic data indicating that Facebook is king when it comes to online visitors despite criticism about privacy at the social-networking service.
 Facebook.com is visited monthly by 540 million people, or slightly more than 35 percent of the Internet population, according to Google Ad Planner worldwide data gathered using recently-acquired Double Click.
Approximately 570 billion pages are viewed monthly at Facebook.com, more than eight times as many pages as are viewed each month at second-place Yahoo.com which gets 490 million visitors, according to Google.
The figures support word from Facebook that it has not been abandoned by members despite carping by politicians, consumer groups and privacy advocates that want tighter safeguards on personal information at the website.
Only 23,515 people had signed up as of Friday at a "We're Quitting Facebook" website as "committed" to dump the social-networking service as part of a campaign to stage a mass protest on May 31.
That number represents less than .006 percent of Facebook's more than 400 million members.
Facebook is overhauling privacy controls in the face of a barrage of criticism that it is betraying the trust which has made it the world's biggest social network.
Facebook redesigned its privacy settings page to provide a single control for content and "significantly reduce" the amount of information that is always visible to everyone.
Facebook also said it is giving users more control over how outside applications or websites access information at the service.
"This is a pretty big overhaul to the system we already have," Zuckerberg said while outlining the changes during a Wednesday press briefing at the social network's headquarters in the California city of Palo Alto.
"Now we are making it so there is less information that has to be public. People want a simple way to control the way information is shared with third parties, so that is what we are doing," he said.
The revamped privacy controls began rolling out Wednesday.
Facebook last month sparked criticism from privacy and consumer groups, US lawmakers and the European Union by adding the ability for partner websites to incorporate data regarding members of the social-networking service.
Critics continue to call for Facebook to make all user information private by default and then let people designate what they want to share case-by-case in an "opt-in" model.
Facebook has rejected such a model, saying the service is based on a premise that people want to connect and share with friends and people around them.

 गजल ब्यंग्य


नछुँदैमा पोलिदिने, अ‍ैंशेलुको झाङ नारी
कहिल्यै पनि नत्तातिने  सुत्केरीको आङ नारी

मात लागेन खै किन जति धेरै पिए पनि
पिउदा झनै पिऊ लागने शिवजीको भाङ नारी

जायज कुरा गरेँ पनि वम झैं पडकिरने
त्यों बेलाको युद्ध भूमि  रुकुम र दाङ नारी

झैझगडा भैरन्छ बिना अर्थ यो मायामा
जोडदानी नजोडिने फलामको राङ नारी

जता नोट उतैतिर,  लोभि दिने त्यो नजर
जति भएनी नपुग्ने  रुपिँयाको चाङ नारी

When most guys set out to impress a woman they do all the wrong things. Here are 10 ways you can set yourself apart from the 39 other lame guys she’s met, and I guarantee that she’s both impressed and intrigued by you.

No.10 - Be original

I don’t know many women who haven't been taken out to dinner at least 100 times. So, be original and, when you get together, do fun things that she doesn’t get to do with anyone else. Take her on a bike ride or to the park to play Frisbee or to a tiny Italian cafe that has a fascinating story behind it. Sneak up to the top floor of the highest building in the city or take her to a playground and go on the swings. It’s doing fun things like this that will get her addicted to you -- fast.

No.9 - Stay in control

Women like a man with a plan; when you call her up, don’t make her “work” by having to make any decisions. Let her know exactly what time you are picking her up, where you are taking her and what she should wear. When you get to wherever you are going, decide what you are going to do there, and where and how you are going to do it. Let her sit back and relax while you take care of the details. And later, show her where your bedroom is -- and for god's sake, take her clothes off for her. It’s the gentlemanly thing to do.

No.8 - Be chivalrous

Being chivalrous is a powerful way to let a woman know that you’re the man and she’s in good hands. Open doors for her and pull out her chair. When you’re walking down the street, make sure you always walk on the outside of the curb, and tell her why you’re doing it. Put your hand on the small of her back when walking into a restaurant or across the street. You’ll be surprised at just how much this turns her on.

No.7 - Be cool

Don’t be the type of guy that sweats the small stuff… like an nonreturnable phone call. Simply pretend you were too busy to even notice that she forgot to call you back. She’ll probably assume you were busy with other women -- which is always a good thing.

No.6 - Be mysterious

Too many guys make the mistake of throwing their entire lives on the table when they meet a woman they are interested in. So, be different and hold some things back -- especially those that people might consider impressive. People are much more impressed by the accomplishments of others when they “discover” them rather than being told about them. For instance, if she asks you what you drive and you happen to drive a nice car, tell her you ride a motor scooter. When she finds out the truth, she’ll be impressed not only with your vehicle, but also your sense of humor and modesty.

No.5 - Have a life

The one thing that all men who are really successful with women have in common is that they all have great lives of their own, and they don’t need a woman in their lives to be happy. Women find this extremely attractive. It’s easy for a woman to land a guy that “needs” her, but when she meets a guy that has a successful and happy life already, she’ll do whatever she can to convince him that she should be a part of it. So, find some things that you are passionate about, whether it be hobbies, sports or business pursuits, and make them your main priorities instead of her. Keep yourself active and well-rounded -- and let her be the one to try to chase you down. She’ll love you for it.

No.4 - Be unpredictable

The single biggest mistake men make with women is being predictable. You’d think women would appreciate it if they knew exactly when you were going to call and what you were going to do when you got together, but in reality it kills the two biggest things women long for in a relationship: excitement and anticipation. So don’t always call exactly when you say you will. Invite her over to take her out to dinner, and take her straight to the bedroom instead. Invite her over to get physical, and instead take her out to dinner. Are you beginning to get the picture? Keep her guessing and you’ll have no problem keeping her around.

No.3 - Make her earn it

I’m sure you’ve heard the old saying that states that “people don’t value what they don’t have to work for.” Well, the same holds true for women and dating. If you’re putting in all of the effort in the relationship, she won’t value you or appreciate your time. So make sure she’s calling you as much if not more often then you’re calling her. Have her come over to your house and pick you up every once in a while, and ask her to help you out with small favors here and there. The more work she puts into the relationship, the more she’ll value it -- and the more she’ll want to get out of it (and that includes sex).

No.2 - Make a move

After she’s proved herself to you, it’s time to be a man and make a move. Women don’t respect a man who doesn’t have the guts to go for that first kiss -- or anything else -- so don’t let her down. Making a move will make her feel sexy and attractive, and it will show her that you are the type of confident, powerful man she is looking for.

No.1 - Be casual

The last thing a woman wants is a guy who starts calling her 10 times a day after they’ve had a fun night out. If you start acting like you’re ready for marriage after the first date -- or even the fifth -- you might as well have the words “I’m desperate!” tattooed across your forehead. Instead, keep things cool. Don’t rush into anything, and let her be the one to take things to the next level. She’ll respect you more and you’ll have a far better chance of ending up in the great relationship you are looking for

तडपाउनु तडपायौ नुन अझै थपे हुन्छ
मायाको साटो हिरा सुन अझै थपे हुन्छ

म रुँदा तिमी हाँस्यौ सक्छौ त रुवाउ अझै
छनछनि नाँच्छु वरु धुन अझै थपे हुन्छ

धोकाले मात्रै खै, कहाँ पेट अघाइन्छ र?
विश्वासघाति मनको सगुन अझै थपे हुन्छे

निष्ठुरी तिम्रो मन म रुँदा नी हाँस्न सक्छ
तैयार छु रुनलाई रुन अझै थपे हुन्छ

आडमवरि माया दिइ फसाउनु फसायौ
अझै छ मन खुसि वैगुन अझै थपे हुन्छ

अपराधि म वनेँ आफ्नै माया हत्यागरि
सजाय धोका हैन  कानुन अझै् थपे हुन्छ

राधेरामको आफनो छोरा छोरीको पारा देख्दा यति रिस उठ्छ कि भनेर साध्य नै छैन् । आफू त सानोमा खोले मात्र खाएरु नांगै खुटामा पाठशाला गएर पढेको तर छोरा छोरी भने विहान देखि स्याण्डविस, केक खुवाउँदा पनि उल्टो पिजाको माग गरेको देखेर दिक्क लाग्छ । आफुले त सानोमा भात र मासु खान पनि दशै आउनुपर्दथ्यो नयाँ लुगा त पाँच वर्षको एकचोटि फेर्न पाइन्थ्यो । लुगा मैलो कालो जताततै प्वाल र लाज ढाक्न पनि गाहो हुन्थ्यो । पाठशाला जान पनि ३ घण्टा हिडेर जानु पर्दथ्यो तर छोरा छोरीलाई भने घर अगाडी गाडी आएर लगेता पनि कस्तो गाहो समय नै नपुग्ने भनेपछि एकैचोटि रिसले मुरमुरिएर श्रीमति, छोरा र छोरीलाई ठूलो स्वरले गाली गर्दथ्यो । तीनजना एकपक्ष भएर एकै स्वरमा कराउँथ्यो “कस्तो कन्जरभेटिभ हाउ व्याड इज आवर डयाड“
राधेराम कार्यालयको उपसचिव भएता पनि सिम्पल लुगामा नै अफिस जान्थ्यो । अनि विगतमा आफू गोठमा सुतेर वति थिएन आगो वालेर पढ्दा टोपी जलेको र किताव पनि जलेको कहानी मनमा रहिरहेकोले हाइफाइ गर्न नै मन लाग्दैन्थ्यो भने उ वोर्डिगंमा छोराछोरीको कार्यक्रममा जाँदा माइ डयाड् इज कमिगं विथ पाखे भन्दा राधेरामलाई सहि नसक्नुको हुन्थ्यो । श्रीमति संग पार्टीमा जाँदा पनि सालीहरुले होइन भिनाजु अलिकति त परिवर्तन भएर दिदिको चित पनि वुझाउनु पर्यो नि कस्तो कन्जरभेटिभ भिनाजु यसो डिस्कोमा जाउँ भन्दा पनि नमान्ने कस्तो ...............
उ पुर्पुर्रामा हात राखेर सोच्थे जिन्दगी के हो के छक्क पर्दथे त्यही भएर दारी पनि कहिले काट्दैनथ्यो । श्रीमतिले दारी काट भन्दा भन्दा कहिले काट्दैन्थ्यो । यसरी वषौ देखि राधेराम हाइ स्ट्याण्डर घरमा गाडी सहित वसेता पनि उन्को मन कहिले खुशीका साथ रमाउन सकेन आफुले कम्प्युटर चलाउन थालेको भर्खर २ वर्ष भयो। दिसा पुछ्न नजान्ने छोराले ल्यावटपको माग गरेको देख्दा उन्को शीर देखि तातिएर आउँथ्यो ।
उ उपसचिव भएता पनि श्रीमति छोरा र छोरीहरुले चाहेको जति पैंसा कमाउन नसक्ने थियो । शुद्ध कमाईको कारणले पैंसा प्रयाप्त भने हुँदैन्थ्यो ।अनि श्रीमति फलाक्न थाल्थे फलानाले यति कमायो डिस्कानाले यति कमायो । त्यसमा पनि उ सोझो भएको देख्दा कहिले काँही त मरौ मरौ जस्तो पनि लाग्दथ्यो ।
उन्को श्रीमति आफनो साथी संगिनी र नाताहरु भने हुरुक्क हुन्थयो भने घरपरिवार नातागोता सँग भने जहिले पनि रिसाएको व्यवाहार देख्दा राधेराम मर्नु न वाँच्नुको दोसाधमा परेको थियो ।
एकदिन राधेरामको पुरानो मित्र अगस्थिराम भेट्न आउँछ मनभरि वह पोख्छ । राधेरामको कुरा सुनेर अगस्थिरामले राधेरामलाई सम्झाउछ र भन्छ यो सवै जनरेसन ग्याप हो वावु समय अनुसार चल्नुपर्दछ । उन्को साथीवाट पनि उसले उचित खालको जवाफ पाउन सक्दैन र फेरि दिक्क मानेर वेसरी कराउछ अगस्थि तिमी पनि किन परिवर्तन हँ ?

A European data protection group on Wednesday penned a letter to Facebook in which it told the social networking site that its recent privacy changes are "unacceptable".
That Article 29 Working Party, a collection of European data groups, sent letters to 20 social networking sites overall, but singled out Facebook for "fundamentally chang[ing] the default settings on its social-networking platform to the detriment of a user."

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At its f8 developer conference last month, Facebook introduced the concept of an "open graph," which is intended to create a larger, more social Facebook community across the Web. It also introduced "Community Pages" intended to provide information about various topics.
The changes have been criticized by consumer groups, members of Congress, and privacy watchdogs because, the groups say, Facebook has not done enough to inform users about how their information is being used.
The Working Party said in its letter that social networks like Facebook need a "default setting in which access to the profile information about the connections of a user is limited to self-selected contacts."
"Any further access, such as by search engines, should be an explicit choice of the user," according to the regulators.
The Working Party also warned third-party developers about using members' personal data. "Providers of social networking sites should be aware that it would be a breach of data protection law if they use personal data of other individuals contained in a user profile for commercial purposes if these other individuals have not given their free and unambiguous consent," the group said.
The letters serve as a follow up to a June 2009 report about social networking from the Working Party and a subsequent hearing in November with three major social networks, including Facebook.
Facebook said it is currently reviewing the Working Party letter.
"While there are many things in their letter we agree on, there are others where we do not, such as around the Party's suggested use of pseudonyms on social networks," a Facebook spokesman said in a statement. "Facebook has always been based on a real name culture, and we fundamentally believe this leads to greater accountability and a safer and more trusted environment for our users. There are plenty of places on the Internet where a person can be anonymous — Facebook is not one of them."
Facebook defended its policies, arguing that the company gives "our users granular controls [that] enable each user to customize many individual settings in order to share, or protect, as much information as they feel comfortable with."
"We already enable users to exclude themselves from being indexed by search engines, and recently introduced granular data permissions for applications," Facebook concluded.
To that end, Facebook will also be holding an internal privacy summit of sorts on Thursday to discuss its privacy policies.
"We have an open culture and it should come as no surprise that we're providing a forum for employees to ask questions on a topic that has received a lot of outside interest," the Facebook spokesman said.

बसन्तझैं हरियालि शहर जीन्दगि रे
लाखौलाख वाँच्नु पनि रहर जीन्दगि रे

ह्ुनु पर्छ जीन्दगीमा हरपल खुसि खुसि
मुस्कानको रुप जस्तै अधर जीन्दगि रे

जतिसुकै दुःख परुन विचलित हुनु हुन्न
खुसि मात्र हुनु सँधै प्रहर जीन्दगि रे

हुनु हुन्न निराश अनि उदास यो जुनिमा
एकनास हावा चल्ने लहर जीन्दगि रे

मर्नु हुन्न जवानिमै आमालाइ वचाउँनुछ
देशकै लागि ज्यान दिनु अमर जीन्दगि रे

जे जस्तो होस अरु राम्रो नै देख्छ कृष्ण
काँडा, फूल एउटै देख्ने नजर जीन्दगि रे

आन्दोलनको भुमरीमा नपार न नेता हो
नेपालीको आँसु फेरी नझार न नेता हो

संबिधान लेख्नलाई ६०१ हात हुदापनि
भोलि भोलि भन्दै नटार न नेता हो

सत्तामा पुग्न आफु जनताको ढाल बनाई
आफु बाँचि सोझालाई नमार न नेता हो

गणतन्त्र आएपनि देशको विकासगति
झन् झन् पछी पछी नसार न नेता हो

बितिसक्यो बेला अब सुधार्न देश भनि
खबरदार कसै संगनि नहार न नेता हो

   दोलखा भाषा                                             नेपालीमा उल्था

मानै मोजुर्स छि बुएन यनगी जिन            नमाने तिमि बोकेर लान्छु म
गुनानु मोखोंके खुएन यनगी जिन               नदेख्ने गरि चोरेर लान्छु म

माया उली यत्न मायार्स जननाप                   माया यति गर्दा म संग नआए
लाहाकु जोंगन डुएन यनगी जिन                  समाति हात तानेर लान्छु म

जी ओतु मोओंगी हंगन चोन्स                  जान्न भनि बस्यौ भने तिमि
फसन थे बेस्न फुएन यनगी जिन           हावालेझैँ बेसरी उडाएर लान्छु म

व्याहा जन नाप यत्मुन हर्स छिन               म संग बिहे गर्यो तिमि भने
लुँ ए ट्वांगसोन छुएन यनगी जिन            सुनको गुरास लागाएर लान्छु म

माया सोएन डवाकु ड्या खेंग हर्स               माया भन्दा ठूलो धन हो भने
ड्याबा ए लोखुन लुएन यनगी जिन         पैसाको पानीले खनाएर  लान्छु म      
                                                               
छि परि स्वर्ग ए जुर्मुन हर्स खिने                तिमि स्वोर्गकी परि भयौ भने
जी कृष्ण देउ जुएन यनगी जिन                 कृष्ण देउतानि  बनेर लान्छु म